A young widow with children shouldn’t remain unmarried after the demise of her husband – Nigerian woman says

A young widow with children shouldn’t remain unmarried after the demise of her husband – Nigerian woman says

A Nigerian lady and mother, Progress Okuk, has said that youthful widows with kids shouldn’t stay unmarried after the downfall of their spouses.

She anyway added that in the event that a widow decides not to remarry it ought to come from individual conviction and not cultural assumptions.

“I use to address why bereft more youthful ladies were permitted to remain unmarried. I didn’t think it was great that a lady who lost her better half in her 30’s wouldn’t look to remarry; picking rather to bring up her kids alone till advanced age,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Friday.

In any case, I have likewise come to understand that there are sure connections between a man and lady, that can’t be made sense of; even in death.

There is the means by which a man would cherish a lady, that it turns out to be humanly unimaginable for some other man to make up for the shortcoming, whether after a separation or in his end.

She envisions it a tainting, opening her body to another man; thus, she basically secures, because of a paranoid fear of unremarkableness or essentially to pay tribute to what they shared. There are to be sure various levels to this thing called “love”.

Despite the fact that I regard her decision, I actually don’t acknowledge the possibility that a youthful widow, with kids, would stay unmarried after the downfall of her better half.

This ought to come from an individual conviction and not cultural assumptions.

It isn’t great for ‘man’ to be distant from everyone else.