I dated down, none of my ex were richer than me – Nkechi Blessing

I dated down, none of my ex were richer than me – Nkechi Blessing

Popular Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing speaks candidly about her beyond relationships, revealing that she has by no means dated a man wealthier than herself regardless of public perceptions.

In a latest stay session, the actress reflected on how her private lifestyles has often been a topic of public discussion, with many associating her call with courting controversies. She, however, harassed that she does not need to be described completely by the men she has dated.

Blessing emphasised that her relationships had been in no way motivated through fabric benefit but as a substitute through affection and companionship.

Her words …

“I suppose all my life, with the little that some of you recognize about me or with the a good deal that you understand approximately me at the net, it’s continually been about being in a single dating, saga or the opposite. however, I stated to myself, this isn’t what I need to be regarded for. I don’t want to be that lady who everybody thinks if she doesn’t have a person in her existence, she can’t function. That’s no longer who i’m. due to the fact all my existence, despite the men in my lifestyles, I nevertheless do my matters myself. Come on. It has always been approximately me. now not like this guy do something for me. I made a submit at the comment and a person stated it’s due to the fact you are not courting down. The complete dating that I’ve ever been on line was once me relationship down. sure. I’ve by no means dated a person who has extra money than i’m. And that’s a reality. And not like i was with them due to what they can deliver to me. They actually can’t give me what I want. the sole aspect they gave to me was simply maybe their love, care and attention. but if it’s miles about being materialistic, that was once no longer it for me so when I say i pass over being in a dating i clearly leave out being babied i omit being you know when you just call me randomly hey babe i’m just checking on you i think i have i’ve stayed long ample is it i don’t recognise i don’t recognize just want to attention on other components of my life because i can’t be acknowledged for always coming on-line to fight my exes when my pals are doing huge matters so i think i i have taken a protracted damage from dating one year is sufficient to heal and you recognize discover love again after which move on due to the fact the reality is i’m a lover lady Yeah, i like to like. i love to be in love. i really like when I simply be round my guy. i am very clingy, just if you don’t understand. yes, i am. The truth that i used to be born February 14 additionally brought to the fact that i really like to love. i’m someone who loves seeing human beings in love. So for the beyond 365 days, anytime I scroll thru Instagram, I see cherished up videos of couples. It makes me… I’m not a hater. If no longer, i can drop awful, horrific comments. but on the other hand… I omit being in love. so to the very subsequent guy that is planning or trying to come into my life, you have to come accurate. i have dated down 3 times. i’m now not approximately to date down anymore. You have to meet my standards because the truth remains, i have the whole lot going on for myself already. So absolutely everyone that is coming into my life proper now have to be someone who has way more than I do. due to the fact I’m not looking to babysit no guy no greater. because the men we’ve got out there, most of them are princesses. They need a girl who is going to attend to 100% of the abuse.”

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